• I dream of the day when these, the African mathematicians and computer specialists in Washington and New York, the African physicists, engineers, doctors, business managers and economists, will return from London and Manchester and Paris and Brussels to add to the African pool of brain power, to enquire into and find solutions to Africa's problems and challenges, to open the African door to the world of knowledge, to elevate Africa's place within the universe of research the information of new knowledge, education and information -Thambo Mbeki, former South African President
  • They therefore concluded that “the findings of this (and other) surveys indicate that coverage of Africa, by the leading sources of American media is, at best, dismissive of the continent’s progress and potential, and thus leading to continued ‘exotification’ and marginalization of the African continent. At worst, coverage disregards recent trends toward democratization, thus betraying an almost contemptuous lack of interest in the potential and progress being achieved on the continent.”

Above excerpt is from a writer: Gbemisola Olujobi

  • By Gbemisola Olujobi - The Africa You Need to Know - Posted on Nov 28, 2006 See Full Article above

Why is the African image so negative?

  • Tell the Truth
  • What is your image of Africa?

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Loving God Always

Loving God always is hard to do, especially when you are mad, angry, disappointed that things aren't going your way. This is the time you can't see Him, leave alone speak to Him face to face. When things are not going right, or according to our timetables, we lose hope and focus, forgetting that God invented time, appointments, decision making, our future plus all that we need.

Personally when i feel like I can't face him, or even talk to him because of the heaviness in my heart, I cry out more and declare 'that Lord I love you...I have loved you ever since, and I'll continue to love you...all the days of my life. "You love me Lord, I love you with all of my heart" and I know everything is going according to your plans, for you are never late, you will show up and it will at the right time"

Returning to Africa

With all the nay sayers and bashers of Africa, here we come. To stay.
It's amazing how many 'whats! and wow,whys, and oh my God, are you serious?? we got at the mention of coming back home. But i understand the anxiety, the fear and the uncertainty. But, be rest assured you need not fear.
Instead its..

satisfying to be back home with family.
It's fulfilling to sit and be glad you are back.
It's exciting to know you are eating fresh,organic grown produce that's not only healthy, but pure and real.
Most of all it's feels so the right time to build, support, and fight for the country that sits on the eastern corner of Africa, now with the new constitution plus hopeful women, men and children, who are ready to show what patriotism really is.

It's called home. A place where i spent 13yrs reminscing and talking about all day and night in all the kenyan gatherings i attended while abroad. I missed home then, the food, family, connections, chips na kuku, chocstick icecream, mutura, nyama choma and nduma not to mention matoke.

Now tham i'm here and watching people go through their own business, determined taxi drivers, amazing chefs in hotels and restaurant owners, very educated and well learned accountants, scientists, lawyers and economists, matatu owners and touts eradicating bribes and corruption by calling out corrupt cops, ICC with support from Wako, plus all around the country's enthusiasm that Kenya is new, with a new dawn and a hopeful future, it makes me glad to be back home.

I'm not denying there are few hurdles here and there, and that it's time to get used to the ways of things here. It's hard for me sometimes, for the kids and hubby as well, but it's small things that we can handle. Once you find a system that works for you, it's all good and it's working out pretty well.

Yes, it's so worth it, and it's doable. Just gather up some guts, some little savings and a great expectant heart, and you'll be just fine.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Create Time to be better....You only live once.

This is not the year to look back and wish you had done something.
It is not the year to look back and wish you had said anything.
Neither is it the time to 'what if'.
There is nothing like 'what if'. It either happened, didn't happen or wasn't meant to happen.

So, stop wishing, stop looking back at yesterday, for it is gone. Learn from it.

Instead, take the bull by it's horns, plough the ground, uproot the lingering weeds, let the tears flow (the grounds needs the water),put your head up and take a step of faith, and let God reign. He has your future in his hands. If He's got the whole world in his hands, why on earth would you think He don't got your back??

Great expectations, hope, and faith are what keeps us going. If we didn't expect anything, what would life be like? If we didn't hope for the best, how on earth would we survive? and if we didn't have faith, God help us, we wouldn't be here.

This year take back what is yours. Claim your rightful place as a Child of God. If you are an employee, be the best you can be. Give your all. I've been thinking about this since i heard the sermon today at my church, brought forth by a prophetic and anointed man of God, who is probably the best pastor ever! Haven't really met another like him...so..:)He has my full respect as a prophetic changer for this generation.
Anyway, back to my point....as an employee work fervently, give all you've got. Work faithfully and work favorably.

As an employer, honor those who work for you. Treat them like you would want to be treated. Show respect and honor your word. Pay up and compensate as agreed. Remember you didn't get there all by yourself. It could be taken away from you.

As a parent (I am one), so i can speak. Be present. Be there and be the example.
Let your children learn from you. Let the care center and the nanny act as helpers, but not the parents. Do not let anyone else take your place as the mom or the dad. Take charge of your home. Throw the enemy out, lock shields with your wife or your family members and keep your family and household covered. If you need to throw out the TV, go ahead and do so.

For the aspiring young people, stay in school, keep going, even though it's one class a semester. You never stop learning, and don't let anyone tell you that you are done. If you are bored. go outside, leave the TV and the video games. Take a walk - to the community center, to the library and read a book you've never rad before. Ever been to Africa? Well, pick up a book on it. Have you ever gone skiing? grab a book on it and learn something new.

For the young girls, know that you are beautiful and you were carefully and wonderfully constructed in the image that God saw fit for you. He had a purpose you know...:)The best and most striking. Do not let anyone define beauty for you. Do not let the boys dictate what your life should be like. Be a strong woman, take charge and demonstrate the power in you to be strong, beautiful, striking and confident. Do not entertain grownups who you do not know. Keep away from people who take you away from your friends, family and church. Keep away from those asking you to keep secrets, and keep away from those who tell you, you look mature at 13. They are liars.

Smile more. Give more of your time as an individual. Cook up some food and go feed someone who is alone or sick. Buy some sugar, flour, bananas and eggs and knock on your neighbors and chat for a minute. If you don't have time, well, create some. We all have 24hrs, and we should lay down the excuse of not having time.

All to say, do more good, don't look back, learn from yesterday, move on and become a responsible human being with others on your mind.

Create time to be better. You only live once.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Unrestrained and Unashamed

It's been a while since I last wrote, or pretty much copied and pasted someone else's writing onto this blog..haha, but i have something i need to share that is working in me right now. Gratitude

I'm thankful that I have a home, a family and food to eat.

I'm thankful that my Lord and Savior chose me of all other people to save and make me totally His.

I'm thankful that God's mercies are new every morning, and He saw it fit to add another day for me.

I'm thankful that I have the 5 full senses - sight, smell, touch, and the other 2.

I'm thankful that I have work to do, and even in my place of work, Christ is still glorified.

I'm thankful to God that I have brought forth two beautiful girls with the help of my husband.

With all that I am and with all that I have, I honor the Lord and I give my whole life and heart to Him.

Unrestrained and unashamed.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Change is good sometimes....

A Better Life Beckons in Africa
U.S. Downturn Drives Immigrant Professionals Back Home

By Stephanie McCrummen - Washington Post Foreign Service - May 2009

KISUMU, Kenya -- With the U.S. economy in turmoil, his job as a truck driver no longer secure and his upwardly mobile life in the Dallas suburbs in jeopardy, James Odhiambo decided it was time for a change. He wanted a healthier lifestyle for his family, less anxiety, fewer 14-hour days. So he recently traded his deluxe apartment, the pickup truck, the dishwasher and $4.99 McDonald's combos for life in a place he considers relatively better: sub-Saharan Africa. "Right now I'm no stress, no anxiety," said Odhiambo, 34, relaxing in his family home in this western Kenyan city along the shores of Lake Victoria. "Think of it this way: When I was in the U.S., I was close to 300 pounds. Now, I'm like 200. The biggest thing for me was quality of life."

While that may seem counterintuitive to Americans accustomed to bleaker images of Africa, recent studies have documented the flight of immigrant professionals from the United States to their home countries. Chinese and Indian workers increasingly say they see better opportunities and lifestyles at home. And diaspora associations of Nigerians, Ghanaians, Kenyans and other Africans say their members -- mostly from middle-class backgrounds -- are joining the exodus, choosing life in the land of slow Internet connections and power outages over the pressures of recession-era America.

"I personally know many people who are going back," said Erastus Mong'are, who works as a program manager for an insurance company in Delaware and heads an association of Kenyans living there. "The people I know here work two or three jobs just to make ends meet, while in Kenya -- despite its problems -- people seem more happy. They seem to be getting more time with family. More relaxed. Here, if my neighbor sees I've parked in his spot, he becomes so upset."

In a broad sense, the return migration to Africa is in line with studies suggesting that despite persistent poverty and civil unrest in places such as Congo, Somalia and Sudan, much of the continent has been buoyed in recent years by a sense of optimism driven by economic growth. Pew Research Center studies tracking global attitudes have found that people's level of satisfaction with their quality of life is rising across much of Africa, while it has stayed level or decreased in the United States. For Odhiambo, disillusionment with the American way of life grew more or less with his waistline.

As a lean young man, he moved to the United States to attend a community college in Upstate New York, an idea nurtured by images of American life he saw on television growing up in a middle-class family in Kenya: "Diff'rent Strokes," "The Six Million Dollar Man," "Beverly Hills, 90210." "You'd see all these manicured lawns, all this organization," he recalled on a recent day, while having a long lunch at an outdoor cafe without once looking at his watch. He arrived in the mid-1990s with a sense of possibility in a land promising immigrants a better life. After college, he moved to Texas and worked as a long-haul truck driver, crisscrossing the country delivering auto parts, televisions, soda bottles and big containers from China. He marveled at innovations such as the car cup holder; he was inspired by government efficiencies that made it possible to get a driver's license in one day. And as his pay improved, he and his wife moved into a luxury apartment complex outside Dallas called Sonoma Grande at the Legends.

"It was really nice," Odhiambo recalled, noting that it had a pool, a Jacuzzi, a gym and other treats unheard of in Kenya. But as his workdays grew longer, he hardly enjoyed any of those amenities. He worked 14-hour shifts trying to keep up with his $800 monthly rent, payments on a new Ford Ranger pickup, health insurance that did not cover a pair of tinted prescription glasses needed for long hours at the wheel, and bills driven by must-haves such as air conditioning. "I couldn't get any exercise at all, and I was restricted to truck stops for food," he said. "I'd go for the buffet -- meat with gravy, fried chicken -- or fast food. I didn't have time for my daughters. In the movies, they only show one side of America."

His daughters were approaching school age, and they would have attended a public school with metal detectors and gangs. He said the alarmingly regular reports of shootings at schools, churches or offices frightened his family more than the post-election violence sweeping parts of Kenya at the time. The recession only confirmed a decision he and his wife had been mulling for a while: It was time to go. Earlier this year, they packed up, explaining to their confused American friends that Congo's rebel fighting was thousands of miles from Kenya, and that no, Odhiambo is not a king back home. And so, on this day, Odhiambo tooled around Kisumu, a medium-size city full of government workers and small-business people, street hawkers selling newspapers and vendors selling tennis shoes dangling from tree limbs. He drove the modest Toyota Starlet he bought for $1,500 cash past a minor traffic jam of bicycle taxis and people pushing carts loaded with plastic jugs of water.

"This city has grown, but they still have the water system from the colonial days," he said, not seeming to care. He drove past a golf course and through an upscale neighborhood of bamboo hedges and pink bougainvillea, noting the few cars in driveways. "Here, if you have a car, you'll share it with four or five people," he said. "In the States, if there are five people in the house, they have five cars. There's a lot of 'this is mine.' " the money he saved in the States, Odhiambo figures he has a six-month cushion during which he plans to start his own business -- a kind of private coast guard for Lake Victoria, modeled on the community fire stations in the United States. But because of the famously slow Kenyan bureaucracy, his business registration is taking weeks, leaving Odhiambo with something he rarely had in America -- time.

He is farming some in his mother's village, where he has another family home, and getting back into his old ham radio hobby. He enjoys afternoons watching small planes buzz in for a landing above the rolling green sugar and tea farms around Kisumu. His family lives in his mother-in-law's tidy -- and paid for -- one-story, cinder-block house. There are no credit cards in Kenya, and mortgages are just catching on, so life mostly runs on cash. "Here, you really can live on about $5 a day," Odhiambo said. Instead of running a dishwasher, the Odhiambos wash their plates by hand. Instead of running an air conditioner, they open the windows. Instead of shopping for groceries at Wal-Mart, Odhiambo's wife heads to the local market and bargains for fresh tomatoes, onions and the Kenyan equivalent of collard greens, sukuma wiki. She has dropped four dress sizes.

"Here, you can't say 'Give me a number 4,' " he said, pulling into his neighborhood, where a few goats trotted along the dirt road, and some elementary-school children in gray uniforms shuffled home. "See that?" he said. "Think of that! In America, you'd never let kids walk home" alone. Odhiambo has noticed that his girls, who are 4 and 2 and will attend a private international school here, are becoming less leery of strangers and the outdoors in general, an attitude he says they learned in the United States. "When we first got here, people would say, 'Why don't they go outside and play?' " he said. "They were scared." Gradually, though, the family is relaxing. "Right now, I'm just waiting for my business registration," Odhiambo said, savoring a warm sunset breeze. "Here, the pace is a whole lot slower."

If you want the change........

BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD
Mahatma Gandhi(1869-1918)

Reason I'm a die hard African returnee...

Check this out.....


It is important that brain drain, brain waste and reverse brain drain be incorporated while an African is considering migrating to the United States.


According to the United Nations, an African professional working in the United States contributes about $150,000 per year to the U.S. economy. What few realize is that Africans who immigrate to the United States contribute 40 times more wealth to the American than to the African economy. On a relative scale, that means for every $300 per month a professional African sends home, that person contributes $12,000 per month to the U.S. economy (Emeagwali, 2003).

Philip Emeagwali won the 1989 Gordon Bell Prize, which has been called "supercomputing's Nobel Prize," for inventing a formula that allows computers to perform their fastest computations - a discovery that inspired the reinvention of supercomputers. He was extolled by then U.S. President Bill Clinton as "one of the great minds of the Information Age" and described by CNN as "a Father of the Internet;" he is the most searched-for scientist on the Internet.
[Principia College (prin.edu), Elsah, Illinois, October 24, 2003


By the way, I found above info while doing my Research Paper in College - The Impact of Reverse Brain.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Why are many Africans so terrified of going back home?

It's funny how I've spent so much of my time in the recent weeks trying to convince folks how I can't shake off the natural part of me that's African, and neither can i just ignore it. Being patriotic is a natural thing for me....Some would beg to differ though...but i choose to just ignore, or just hear them out, since i have no choice, - telling me and asking me 'aren't you happy in America kinda questions... to why don't you just leave America then? with a sneer from the corner of their mouth..

Now, i don't wanna just leave America. I have other plans. To carry everyone with me. At least anyone who would go with me. That brings me to my question..

Why are many Africans so terrified of going back home?

A few questions I've asked my fellow Africans:

Why are you still here after all these years? - waiting to save enough money to retire in my country.

How come you've never been home to visit all these years? - well, there is nothing there for me, if i leave now, i can't come back, and that will be it for me.

Do you think if you went home your family will be proud of you after all these years? - Not really, I've not been able to finish school and I've not been able to make enough money to help them.

DO you think you'll ever go back home - aaaiiii, no, it's so insecure bana, there are like carjackers everywhere, you can't walk at night, you can't even talk on your cell phone, you can't wear earrings....bluh, bluh, bluh....

and on and on and on it goes....

and I'm thinking, dude, if we all run away, who will take care of our generation? If we all settle for less in far away countries, minimizing our potential, and having to worry constantly, wondering, and stressing over loved ones....who will help build the land that our forefathers fought for?

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Africa: Open For Business

WASHINGTON POST
The Africa You Never See

By Carol Pineau


In the waiting area of a large office complex in Accra, Ghana, it's standing room only as citizens with bundles of cash line up to buy shares of a mutual fund that has yielded an average 60 percent annually for the past seven years. They're entrusting their hard-earned cash to a local company called Databank, which invests in stock markets in Ghana, Nigeria, Botswana and Kenya that consistently rank among the world's top growth markets.

Chances are you haven't read or heard anything about Databank in your daily newspaper or on the evening news, where the little coverage of Africa that's offered focuses almost exclusively on the negative -- the virulent spread of HIV/AIDS, genocide in Darfur and the chaos of Zimbabwe.

Yes, Africa is a land of wars, poverty and corruption. The situation in places like Darfur, Sudan, desperately cries out for more media attention and international action. But Africa is also a land of stock markets, high rises, Internet cafes and a growing middle class. This is the part of Africa that functions. And this Africa also needs media attention, if it's to have any chance of fully joining the global economy.

Africa's media image comes at a high cost, even, at the extreme, the cost of lives. Stories about hardship and tragedy aim to tug at our heartstrings, getting us to dig into our pockets or urge Congress to send more aid. But no country or region ever developed thanks to aid alone. Investment, and the job and wealth creation it generates, is the only road to lasting development. That's how China, India and the Asian Tigers did it.

Yet while Africa, according to the U.S. government's Overseas Private Investment Corp., offers the highest return in the world on direct foreign investment, it attracts the least. Unless investors see the Africa that's worthy of investment, they won't put their money into it. And that lack of investment translates into job stagnation, continued poverty and limited access to education and health care.

Consider a few facts: The Ghana Stock Exchange regularly tops the list of the world's highest-performing stock markets. Botswana, with its A+ credit rating, boasts one of the highest per capita government savings rates in the world, topped only by Singapore and a handful of other fiscally prudent nations. Cell phones are making phenomenal profits on the continent. Brand-name companies like Coca-Cola, GM, Caterpillar and Citibank have invested in Africa for years and are quite bullish on the future.

The failure to show this side of Africa creates a one-dimensional caricature of a complex continent. Imagine if 9/11, the Oklahoma City bombing and school shootings were all that the rest of the world knew about America.

I recently produced a documentary on entrepreneurship and private enterprise in Africa. Throughout the year-long process, I came to realize how all of us in the media -- even those with a true love of the continent -- portray it in a way that's truly to its detriment.

The first cameraman I called to film the documentary laughed and said, "Business and Africa, aren't those contradictory terms?" The second got excited imagining heart-warming images of women's co-ops and market stalls brimming with rustic crafts. Several friends simply assumed I was doing a documentary on AIDS. After all, what else does one film in Africa?

The little-known fact is that businesses are thriving throughout Africa. With good governance and sound fiscal policies, countries like Botswana, Ghana, Uganda, Senegal and many more are bustling, their economies growing at surprisingly robust rates.

Private enterprise is not just limited to the well-behaved nations. You can't find a more war-ravaged land than Somalia, which has been without a central government for more than a decade. The big surprise? Private enterprise is flourishing. Mogadishu has the cheapest cell phone rates on the continent, mostly due to no government intervention. In the northern city of Hargeysa, the markets sell the latest satellite phone technology. The electricity works. When the state collapsed in 1991, the national airline went out of business. Today, there are five private carriers and price wars keep the cost of tickets down. This is not the Somalia you see in the media.

Obviously life there would be dramatically improved by good governance -- or even just some governance -- but it's also true that, through resilience and resourcefulness, Somalis have been able to create a functioning society.

Most African businesses suffer from an extreme lack of infrastructure, but the people I met were too determined to let this stop them. It just costs them more. Without reliable electricity, most businesses have to use generators. They have to dig bore-holes for a dependable water source. Telephone lines are notoriously out of service, but cell phones are filling the gap.

Throughout Africa, what I found was a private sector working hard to find African solutions to African problems. One example that will always stick in my mind is the CEO of Vodacom Congo, the largest cell phone company in that country. Alieu Conteh started his business while the civil war was still raging. With rebel troops closing in on the airport in Kinshasa, no foreign manufacturer would send in a cell phone tower, so Conteh got locals to collect scrap metal, which they welded together to build one. That tower still stands today.

As I interviewed successful entrepreneurs, I was continually astounded by their ingenuity, creativity and steadfastness. These people are the future of the continent. They are the ones we should be talking to about how to move Africa forward. Instead, the media concentrates on victims or government officials, and as anyone who has worked in Africa knows, government is more often a part of the problem than of the solution.

When the foreign media descend on the latest crisis, the person they look to interview is invariably the foreign savior, an aid worker from the United States or Europe. African saviors are everywhere, delivering aid on the ground. But they don't seem to be in our cultural belief system. It's not just the media, either. Look at the literature put out by almost any nongovernmental organization. The better ones show images of smiling African children -- smiling because they have been helped by the NGO. The worst promote the extended-belly, flies-on-the-face cliche of Africa, hoping that the pain of seeing those images will fill their coffers. "We hawk poverty," one NGO worker admitted to me.

Last November, ABC's "Primetime Live" aired a special on Britain's Prince Harry and his work with AIDS children in Lesotho. The segment, titled "The Forgotten Kingdom: Prince Harry in Lesotho," painted the tiny nation as a desperate, desolate place. The program's message was clear: This helpless nation at last had a knight -- or prince -- in shining armor.

By the time the charity addresses came up at the end, you were ready to give, and that's good. Lesotho needs help with its AIDS problem. But would it really have hurt the story to add that this land-locked nation with few natural resources has jump-started its economy by aggressively courting foreign investment? The reality is that it's anything but a "forgotten kingdom," as a dramatic increase in exports has made it the top beneficiary of the African Growth and Opportunity Act (AGOA), a duty-free, quota-free U.S.-Africa trade agreement. More than 50,000 people have gotten jobs through the country's initiatives. Couldn't the program have portrayed an African country that was in need of assistance, but was neither helpless nor a victim?

Still the simplistic portrayals come. A recent episode of the popular NBC drama "Medical Investigation" was about an anthrax scare in Philadelphia. The source of the deadly spores? Some illegal immigrants from Africa playing their drums in a local market, unknowingly infecting innocent passersby. Typical: If it's a deadly disease, the scriptwriters make it come from Africa.

Most of the time, Africa is simply not on the map. The continent's booming stock markets are almost never mentioned in newspaper financial pages. How often is an African country -- apart, perhaps, from South Africa or Egypt or Morocco -- featured in a newspaper travel section? Even the listing of worldwide weather includes only a few African cities.

The result of this portrait is an Africa we can't relate to. It seems so foreign to us, so different and incomprehensible. Since we can't relate to it, we ignore it.

There are lots of reasons for the media's neglect of Africa: bean counters in the newsroom and the high cost of international coverage, the belief that American viewers aren't interested in international stories, and the infotainment of news. There's also journalists' reluctance to pursue so-called "positive stories." We all know that such stories don't win awards or get front-page, above-the-fold placement. But what's happening in Africa doesn't need to be cast in any special light. The Ghana Stock Exchange was the fastest-growing exchange in the world in 2003. That's not a "positive" story, that's news, just like reports on the London Stock Exchange. I imagine a lot of consumers would have found it newsworthy to learn where they could have made a 144 percent return on their money.

My independent film was made possible by funding from the World Bank, for which I am extremely grateful. But the bank wouldn't have had to step in if the media had been doing their job -- showing all Africans in all facets of their lives. In a business that's supposed to cover man-bites-dog stories, the idea that Africa doesn't work is a dog-bites-man story. If the media are really looking for news, they'd look at the ways that Africa, despite all the odds, does work.

Author's e-mail: capineau@aol.com

Carol Pineau, a journalist with more than 10 years of experience reporting on Africa, is the producer and director of the film "Africa: Open for Business," which premiered last week at the U.S. Chamber of Commerce.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Be Honest: what's Africa to you?

"What's the 1st thing that comes to mind when you hear Africa...or even worse, when you meet an African for the first time?

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Infrastructure in small African towns

In my quest to make Africa a better place for ALL Africans,....I think,

If there was effective infrastructure in small African towns, the communities surrounding would never have to walk for miles.

Clinics would be apart of the infrastructure and children would stay alive longer and pregnant moms would still make it.

The people in the communities would have jobs operating from this buildings - therefore creating steady income.

There would be room for the local farmers to display their products - they wouldn't have to pay lots of money to have their veggies transported to a far away town.

A bookshop or library would be in there too - for all the children in the community to dream a better dream.

Sustainable development would happen due to the income coming from the would be restaurants, shops, clinics, bookstores, hotels, bike repair and auto repairs.

If this were the case in African small towns - things would be so much better.

Just another way to improve the lives of those that need it most.

New Year Resolution: Instant Gratificated You

You know what New Years Resolutions remind me of? Instant Gratification. The favorite pass time of our society. Many of us fail miserably at creating New Year Resolutions. I know I'm guilty! I've done that in the past and i tell ya, it's all a silly trend that doesn't last long..like the HINI flu shot buzz, or less serious, shoes and purses.

When it comes to making New Year Resolutions - people all over the world fail this test. Why? beause we are all trying to be someone we are not in an instant. You know, microwaving instant food is ok because you'll eat it, but microwaving yourself to fit into your new resolution? That's pricelessly cheap and it won't work for ya, sorry, gotta have a plan, a strategy and all the feasible components. - at least a year before hand.

As we all celebrate the Birth of Christ, eat lots' of mbuzi and ham, pies and other unhealthy things...let's remember to be thankful and find ways to make this place, your place - our world (though it's not our destination) a better place for those around us. A place others can enjoy. A place that others can benefit from. A place that thrives, grows and develops.

A place to dream long enough to make things happen.

Not a place that is instantaneously gratified.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Books Help Change Lives

We all know that education changes lives.

Reading, writing and learning fuels the juices in us to rise up to unstoppable levels. Levels that produce imagination, inventions, breakthroughs and higher advancements.

When a child has an opportunity to be educated, given direction and assistance - this opens doors that can not be closed. Doors that bring opportunities. These opportunities define that child's destiny. Look at your own life.

I was raised and grew up in East Africa, and it's no secret that part of my heart never left. I had the opportunity to be in great schools, with support from my family and teachers. I received my rewards, graduated and now looking back, I'm so thankful and grateful for all who played a part in who I am today.

Today in the same region, are some schools with kids who have no books. If we are to bless the coming generations, and if we are to make this world a better place, we don't have a reason not to start now.

Life is only what you make of it. A long time ago, I decided mine was to make it a better place for those around me and for those that I know need my help. I'm not more important than anyone. I am not special, but I am blessed so that I can bless others in return.

For these kids, it all starts with a book, a pen, and paper. Their dreams can only start if someone helps them start to dream. Some miss school because of such simple supplies. Some schools have no chalk, and important formulas, words and math get bypassed because there is nothing to write with.

With something to read, they become imaginative. With something to write on, they can write their dreams. Their lives will begin to change. That's the joy of being apart of this. When you realize that a change is coming and that kid's life will never be the same again.

I hope the books never stop being of interest. I hope the books never stop coming.
That way, their dreams will stay alive.

To all my friends, family and acquaintances. Now that we have the opportunity to work, smile, eat and be merry, lets share the old books, new books, pencil cases, pens, pencils, erasers, note books for the kids and chalks for the teachers.

Let's allow the kids to dream. Give books that you don't need. They will change their lives.

Ask me how.

Thank you.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Freedom of Speech Part 2

is not all that bad if used appropriately:

We know that this same freedom of speech has allowed millions of migrants to express themselves fully.

This same freedom of speech has given a voice to those of other creeds, races and orientation.

This freedom of speech gave Martin Luther King II the stage to dream. His dream coming true is visible from where I stand.

This freedom of speech also allows those of Christian values to follow and praise Jesus.

This same freedom of speech has allowed imagination, invention and breakthrough to massively happen. America is one beneficiary of this freedom.

The freedom to study, practice, work hard, be paid, succeed and look towards a brighter future.

In some countries where freedom of speech is illegal, invention, imagination and democracy are hard to find.

Freedom of speech does a whole lotta things.

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Hiding behind 'Freedom of Speech'

Freedom of speech is what makes America unique.

Freedom of speech allows the $40 billion industry of child and adult pornography to sail through without police stops.

Freedom of speech allows the internet to harbor defilers, pedophiles, perverts and all kinds of criminals targeting innocent children, men and women.

Freedom of speech allows racial profiling and discrimination to excel without hurdles.

Freedom of speech has given authors like Palin to 'go rogue' on the facts.

Freedom of speech allows the media to exaggerate, manipulate and sensitize the public. Once the public is energized with that mess, no stone is left unsaid.

Freedom of speech has let Google stoop to the lowest - when it didn't immediately remove or stop the monkey-like image of Michelle Obama circulating online. How pathetic and low class!

As long as we are a democracy, a free and brave country for all, we'll always hide behind the freedom of speech.

That's how we roll.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Travel the road less traveled

We hear this all the time....yeah.
don't compare yourself with others, don't follow your friends, you don't do what others are doing....you don't have to think like them, or do as they do...etc.

Yet, we do exactly that.
I know I do it all the time, I am guilty and yes, it's hard not to!

But I'm trying things like:

-buying less when I have enough to buy more.

-Eating less, and saving some so I don't have to spend more tomorrow

-Jogging a little longer, so you can actually miss that show you like on TV

-Spending a little more on birthday presents.

-Reading a little bit longer to the kids at the library so I can can miss that thing...

-Smiling shorter, but for real, than a fake longer one.

-Choosing to put my AT&T back in my pocket, even while everyone else is texting.

-Being a doorkeeper, while others push for the lofts and high places - Please work hard for promotions. They are great!

-Sitting at the table of the invisible - even when it's the 'in thing' to be visible.

-Choosing to spend Christmas/Thanksgiving eating and laughing with those I won't normally be with.

-Calling my friends and family, instead of texting or social networking, just because everyone else is.

These are just but a few things to do....

-Love, serve, give, bless and forgive more, even when you don't feel like it. Even when others tell you that you can't. Even when it seems like the wrong thing to do.

Try and travel the road less traveled. You might just find your miracle.

Friday, October 30, 2009

Which One of These are You?

That which adds into others, even in their failures and mistakes.

That which builds on the capacity to understand and accomplish the good.

That which is pure, true and worthy.

That which longs for more knowledge than yesterday.

That which multiplies the ability to succeed, even in others.

That which is honest

That which is enduring

That which is rewarding

That which is encouraging

That which gives, not expecting a return

That which adds value to others

That which lifts up, regardless

That which does not bring down

That which brings into full potential

That which is presentable,

That which is full of integrity

That which oozes of intelligence

That which bleeds of positive influence

That which fights to stay afloat

That which longs for wisdom

That which extends to others in the right way

That which is not selfish

That which embraces peace

That which believes in community

That which believes in others

That which extends a hand

That which encounters challenges as opportunities

That which commands the demons to flee

That which believes.

WHICH ONE OF THESE ARE YOU?

Sunday, October 25, 2009

UK "Economist" Magazine insults Africans

Economist magazine insults Africans

Africa's population
The baby bonanza

Aug 27th 2009 | JABI, SOMALIA
From The Economist print edition

Is Africa an exception to the rule that countries reap a “demographic dividend” as they grow richer?

IN JABI village, on the Juba River in southern Somalia, the mothers are mostly girls. They marry as early as 14 and have their first baby soon after. Their duties barely advance them above a donkey: childbearing and rearing, working in the fields, fetching water from the crocodile-infested river, sweeping faeces from the straw huts. Most have been raggedly circumcised. They have no contraception. There is no school. How many women in the village have died giving birth? “We cannot count the number,” blurts out Asha Hussein; she and the other women weep.

To most people, this is the familiar Africa, a place of large families and high fertility, a continent in which societies are under extreme stress and where the young massively outnumber the old. Teeming, environmentally degraded, ravaged by poverty, hunger, HIV/AIDS and civil war, Africa appears the most plausible candidate ever to suffer a Malthusian disaster.

Yet there is another Africa, an Africa whose people are charting a course more similar to that of the rest of the world: one where they are living longer, having fewer children, and in which more of their children are surviving infancy. Cities are restraining population growth, just as they have in Asia and Latin America. Addis Ababa, Accra, Luanda, may be fetid in parts—shockingly so for those coming from richer countries—but they have low fertility. An emergent African middle class is taking out mortgages and moving into newly built flats—and two children is what they want.

Africa is still something of a demographic outlier compared with the rest of the developing world. Long berated (or loved) as the sleepiest continent, it has now become the fastest-growing and fastest-urbanising one. Its population has grown from 110m in 1850 to 1 billion today. Its fertility rate is still high: the average woman born today can expect to have five children in her child-bearing years, compared with just 1.7 in East Asia. Barring catastrophe, Africa’s population will reach 2 billion by 2050. To get a sense of this kind of increase, consider that in 1950 there were two Europeans for every African; by 2050, on present trends, there will be two Africans for every European

Yet Africa is also starting out, a little late, on a demographic transition that others have already traced: as people get richer, they have fewer children. In 1990 the continent’s total fertility rate was over six, compared with two in East Asia. By 2030, according to United Nations projections, the total fertility rate in sub-Saharan Africa could fall to three. By 2050 it could be below 2.5. It is surely no coincidence that the past 15 years have seen Africa’s fastest-ever period of economic growth. Africa, exceptional in so many ways, does not seem to be an exception to the rule that, as countries get richer, they experience a demographic transition.

That could outweigh all the bad news about civil war, desertification and HIV/AIDS. As societies grow richer, and start to move from high fertility to low, the size of their working-age population increases. The effect is a mechanical one: they have fewer children; the grandparents’ generation has already died off; so they have disproportionately large numbers of working-age adults. According to a study by the Harvard Initiative for Global Health*, the share of the working-age population will rise in 27 of 32 African countries between 2005 and 2015.

The result is a “demographic dividend”, which can be cashed in to produce a virtuous cycle of growth. A fast-growing, economically active population provides the initial impetus to industrial production; then a supply of new workers coming from villages can, if handled properly, enable a country to become more productive. China and East Asia are the models. On some calculations, demography accounted for about a third of East Asia’s phenomenal growth over the past 30 years.

Africa’s people are its biggest asset. One day, its workforce could be as lusty and vital as Asia’s—especially compared with that of necrotic Europe. But there is nothing inevitable about the ability to cash in the demographic dividend. For that to happen, Africa will have to choose the right policies and overcome its many problems. If a country fails to address those problems, then the demographic dividend could become a burden. Instead of busy people at work, there will be restless, jobless young thugs; instead of prosperity, there will be crime or civil unrest.

Africa does not have much time to get things right. The period of greatest potential, when the working-age population is disproportionately large, is not open-ended. In demographic terms, it is just a moment or two. Societies age, and as they do the number of older dependents grows and the moment passes.

Africa has a generation or two to show whether it is, indeed, a demographic outlier as pessimists fear—one in which the dividend turns into a curse—or whether it is able to follow the path blazed by East Asia and reap the benefits of changing population patterns. Can Africa capitalise on the demographic dividend?
Malthus’s fears

There are three main reasons for pessimism. The first is that even today it struggles to provide for its people. Africa’s population is still growing, remember, even if more slowly because fertility is falling. And it still faces the classic constraints, identified by Thomas Malthus in the 19th century, of land and water.

Africa today produces less food per head than at any time since independence. Farms are getting smaller, sometimes farcically so. Dividing village plots among sons is like cutting up postage stamps. The average smallholding of just over half an acre (0.25 hectares) is too small to feed a family—hence the continent’s widespread stunting. Africa’s disease burden extends to its animals and crops. Bananas, for example, are subject to two diseases—bunchy top disease and bacterial wilt disease—which can ruin 80% of a harvest. Scientists reckon 30m people who depend on the fruit are at risk; many of them live in conflict zones such as eastern Congo.

If it is to feed its people, Africa badly needs a green revolution. In those parts with plentiful rainfall and rich soil—wet Africa—the prognosis is reasonably good. But in bigger dry Africa, such as in Jabi village, efforts to replicate Asia’s green revolution have so far failed. This is partly because Asia used large cropping systems and irrigation, which are unsuited to dry Africa. Partly, it is because African leaders and foreign donors have been almost equally indifferent to smallholder farmers and simple improvements to soil and seeds. Even if policy were right, small farms are slower than large ones to adopt better crops and farming methods.

The task of providing for hungry and thirsty people will be complicated by climate change—a big difference from the demographic transitions in Asia and Latin America. The Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change thinks Africa will be the continent hardest hit. Even its best-case scenario (an increase in global temperatures of 1.1-2.9°C by 2100) could be ruinous. Equatorial glaciers will melt and river-flows fall, even as demand for water rises. The United Nations Environment Programme says 75m-250m Africans could go thirsty. That will mean girls will spend longer walking to fetch water which could encourage them to drop out of school and bear children earlier. On some estimates, an area of cultivable land the size of France, Germany, Italy and Britain combined will be ruined. The International Livestock Research Institute says large parts of Africa may soon be too dry for grazing, leading to conflicts between rival cattle herders or, as in Sudan’s Darfur region, between herders and settled farmers.

These are predictions, not certainties. They do not necessarily mean the land cannot be made to support more people. Tree cover in southern Niger, for example, has increased tenfold since the devastating droughts of the 1970s. A government decision to let farmers, rather than the state, own the trees, has made them more valuable by allowing locals to capture the benefits of harvesting bark, branches, seeds and fruits, meaning that locals are less likely to cut them down. Trees limit soil erosion; some “fix” the soil with nitrogen.

Elsewhere, though, the losses are huge. Forests in Kenya have shrunk by at least 60% since 1990, mainly because more people are cutting down trees for fuel. It is doubtful whether Kenya’s government is strong enough to save the Mau forest on which Nairobi depends for water and hydroelectric power. And if Kenya cannot save a forest on which its capital depends, what hope is there for Congo’s rainforest?

Thanks to its demographic transition. Africa will suffer less from these afflictions than it otherwise would. But it cannot remove them altogether, because the continent’s population will continue to grow, albeit more slowly. The hunger, poverty and strife this causes could gravely limit the demographic dividend.

Which leads to the second reason for pessimism: Africa’s families are under greater strain than Asia’s or Latin America’s were when their demographic transitions first began. That means, pessimists fear, that African countries may fail to navigate the virtuous cycle of industrialisation, growing employment, increasing productivity and prosperity.

One African in two is a child. The numbers are such that traditional ways of caring for children in extended families and communities are breaking down. In southern Africa, as a result of HIV/AIDS, an increasing number of families are headed by children. A recent report by the African Child Policy Forum, an advocacy group, says there are now 50m orphaned or abandoned children in Africa. It thinks the number could rise to 100m, meaning misery for them and more violent crimes for others.

Millions of children already live rough in towns and cities. Prostitution and death await the poorest girls. The boys take to glue and crime. Africa has the highest rate of child disablement in the world. Some think 10-20% may be disabled, a staggering number, but since they are rarely seen in clinics and schools that is hard to verify. Paediatricians suspect some are killed in infancy—not Darwin’s natural selection but the dispensing of an extra mouth to feed. Physical stunting is probably rising.

Throughout Africa the burden of disease weighs heavily. Between them, malaria and HIV/AIDS account for about a third of the continent’s 10m deaths each year. In the ten years to 1995, more than 4m Africans died of AIDS and many countries have ten times as many people living with HIV as have died. Most are between 20 and 59. So HIV/AIDS is damaging that very section of the population—working-age adults—on which the demographic dividend depends.

If young people do not get jobs, or some stake in society, they may turn to violence. A Norwegian demographer, Henrik Urdal, reckons a country’s risk of conflict rises four percentage points for every one-point increase in the youth population. So Africa’s pyramids, wide at childhood and adolescence, are more promising than, say, barren Italy’s (see chart 2), but also more combustible. In some cities the rate of unemployment is 70%. The unemployed are recruited into militias or gangs for the price of a day’s wage. There was evidence of this after last year’s Kenyan elections, when politicians and businessmen stood accused of paying young men to turn parts of the country into war zones. Lots of underemployed young people mean too many hotheads and not enough elders. Paul Collier, an Africa specialist at Oxford University, thinks that in such circumstances young African men are “very dangerous”.

The third reason for pessimism is Africa’s political violence, corruption and weak or non-existent governing institutions. According to the Harvard study, “institutional quality [is vital] for converting growth of the working-age share into a demographic dividend.” Here the continent scores much more poorly than Asia or Latin America did in the 1960s or 1980s.

In the worst cases, civil war has meant that the demographic transition has not even begun. Fertility in Congo, Liberia and Sierra Leone—all torn apart by internecine fighting—has barely fallen. In Congo the rate is still six, just as it was in 1950. In the worst places, fecundity tends to track instability. Africa’s highest fertility rates are in the refugee and internally displaced camps in Sudan and Somalia, then in those countries recovering from war, then in famine-pocked patches of desert and scrub stretching from Mauritania to Kenya.

Some Africa-watchers fear that parts of the continent may be getting trapped in a downward spiral: more babies mean more competition for resources, more instability—and more babies. Jared Diamond, a professor at the University of California, Los Angeles, thinks bits of the continent are already suffering a Malthusian collapse of a sort. The Rwandan genocide, in his view, was a result of too many people pressing on too little land, all overlaid with political tension. Recent collapses in parts of Mauritania, Chad, Sudan, Somalia and Kenya, to name a few, are taken by neo-Malthusians to have their roots in overpopulating marginal land, compounded by political failure.

Yet such events also serve as reminders of how much can change. Twenty five years ago, Mozambique and Namibia were also being torn apart by war and Ghana was lurching from coup to coup. Now, these countries are peaceful, prospering and likely to benefit from the demographic dividend.
Confounding Malthus

Given half a chance, Africa shows what Malthus himself underestimated: innovation. The leapfrogging of decrepit state telecoms by profitable mobile telephone companies is one example. A basket of new technologies including wind and solar power stations, biofuel cookers and rainwater tanks could improve prospects for many rural Africans. Only 4% of the continent’s farmland is irrigated. Double that amount, add in fertilisers, seed, credit, information and proper metal warehouses (in some places a quarter of the harvest may be lost to rot and rats), and Africa might not just fill its own 2 billion stomachs, but export farm produce as well.

Emerging Asia and Latin America have been able to absorb much greater numbers of people thanks to urbanisation. Africa’s rate of urbanisation is the fastest the world has ever seen, says Anna Tibaijuka, the head of Habitat, the UN agency responsible for urban development. In 1950 only Alexandria and Cairo exceeded 1m people. When the city rush is done, Africa may have 80 cities with more than 1m people, plus a cluster of megacities headed by Kinshasa, Lagos and Cairo—none of which show signs of mass starvation. Intermediary towns of 50,000-100,000 people will soak up most of those coming from the countryside. Urbanisation is part of the solution to Africa’s demographic problems, not a manifestation of them.

Indeed, it is an open question whether demography should really be considered an African problem—or one of its advantages. Over the past year, the continent has had the fastest economic growth per person in the world, partly because it has been somewhat less affected by the collapse of world trade, but partly because of the small increases countries are seeing in the number of people of working age.

The UN Population Division points out that Africa’s overall population is 8% lower today than it would have been if its fertility rate had stayed at its 1970s level. And the trend towards lower fertility is likely to accelerate. The use of modern contraceptives in sub-Saharan Africa is only 12% (though it has doubled since 1994). In Somalia it is 1%. By comparison, the rate in Asia and Latin America is over 40%, so contraceptive use is likely to rise sharply.

Demography needs to be put in perspective. It is not destiny. Africa needs a green revolution; more efficient cities; more female education; honest governments; better economic policies. Without those things, Africa will not reap its demographic dividend. But without the transition that Africa has started upon, the continent’s chances of achieving those good things would be even lower than they are. Demography is a start.

* Realizing the Demographic dividend: is Africa any different? By David E. Bloom and others

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Protecting a Valuable Priority

Protecting what I value most is my priority.

As a woman, wife, mother, sister and friend, My priorities are limited. I am not able to have a lot of them, probably because I can't handle that many....i don't know...may be I have mini-valuables?

What I value most though, is my relationship with my Creator, His son Jesus and the Comforter, the Holy Spirit. Yeah, it's all very Biblical, very unusual, but seriously, these three are the starting point of my very existence.

No, i didn't just evolve from a monkey and definitely no! the science didn't mold me. Ever watched The Note Book, where Noah as an old man in the doctor's office goes, "you know science only goes so far, and then there is God" And whoa! What an amazing revelation! Don't we all need a revelation today? I know I do.

That's why it's crucial for me to keep reminding myself what my priorities are. I live in a time and age where 'other things' have become priorities and valuable, and we have made these things our priorities. We have set these things aside to dictate what our values are. We have let lies, material things, vanity and idols become our priorities.

We have let certain things control our lives, our reasoning and our decision making. Whereas these things are not that important, they are actually taking us down with them to the hole of nothingness, where we are constantly looking for something, going round in circles.

For me, having a conscious, ongoing, vibrant and working relationship with God helps me relate to myself, my husband, my kids, my family and my friends in a better way. I am a regular human being who could be bashful, hateful, isolated, disrespectful, controlling, manipulative, angry, mean and cold hearted, plus many other things.. But i made a choice to know Christ and His nature is one that provides grace sufficient enough to face everything under the heavens.

Letting the nature of Christ guide and direct me has not only made my life easier, but it has given me a purpose. A purpose to be better in all that I do. Communicate better, understand others and relate to them with respect, love, humility and consideration.

This translates to my work, my responsibilities and what is expected of me. It also comes into play when I am making decisions. When I am operating with a sober mind (not that i drink, I don't'!), I feel like I'm in control, I feel liberated and free. I feel like I am able to accomplish more, fulfill my duties, finish something and be glad about it.

Lastly and most importantly, it translates to my womanliness.
I love people, I love children, I love to cook, I love to talk, I love to entertain, I love to read and write. I love to make a difference where I can. I also love to influence others positively. Seriously, If I didn't have the backing of Christ, and his unconditional love, I would never carry out any of these things. I don't how others do it, but for me I know Christ is the One.

His love embraces me and He fills me up with joy, peace and grace. This crosses over into others, it crosses into my relationship with others, crosses over into things I am involved in, my responsibilities and my obligations. I have allowed His love to be my guiding light. His love covers my mind, my body, my heart and soul.

When His very nature is at work within me, nothing is too big for Him. Nothing falls that He can't pick up, and nothing fails that He can't reconcile. Nothing backfires that he won't mend.

That's why He's my priority. My most valuable priority. My most valuable relationship.

What's your most valuable priority?

Sunday, October 11, 2009

Capitalism: A love Story

Never seen Michael Moore's movies before...
but now, after watching Capitalism: A love Story, I couldn't help but have a whole new perspective of my beloved American country. Wow! is an understatement.

Is it a crime that none of the issues raised in the movie aren't investigated and the perpetrators brought to their knees?

Democracy doesn't necessarily mean good things.
The American Constitution doesn't necessarily stand for every American.
America isn't necessarily the country with all solutions.

In this time and day, in this generation and at this very era that I am alive, there must be a reason why all these things are happening. My questions is:

Will I just stand aside, watch it happen bringing with it evil, manipulation, harmful propaganda, greed, and capitalism or will I hold onto what is truly mine, that which belongs to every American: poor, rich, wealthy, blind, deaf, gay, brown, red, pink, white and black, that which is right and beneficial, that which is true and productive, that which I have worked so hard to achieve. The right.

The right to eat, to choose, to live well, to sleep on a warm bed, to own a house, to have adequate health care and education. My right. The right to be rescued if the floods comes in my city. The right to be included in the sharing of the bread, the right to be included in decision making, the right to be treated as a person with feelings, tears, emotions and ambitions. The right.

Why do people have to fight so hard for their rights in a democratic, free and home of the brave country?

May be Socialism has a new meaning after all.